Mental Model
We use a special tree structure that always keeps the biggest number on top. By removing the biggest number k-1 times, the next biggest is the kth largest.
Analogy: Imagine a pile of books stacked so the thickest book is always on top. If you remove the thickest book repeatedly, the one you get after removing k-1 books is the kth thickest.
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